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Separated from Twin 

Dear Antera:
I have had a long distance relationship with a man for over a year now. We are certain that we are twin flames. Our separation has been very arduous, but we have always found comfort in each other by reminding each other that it is merely a physical manifestation of the inner obstacles we are both working through so that our reunion in the flesh can be achieved with success. We are very certain that our coming together has great planetary significance. As as result, we have noticed that we are doing a tremendous amount of clearing and inner work as the process of ascension accelerates for us both. We have already envisioned our ascending together and wish it to be so.

However, some of the clearing work he has needed to do is quite intense and has at times caused him to question his sanity. I have faith that the universe brings only that which I need to grow, but I am saddened by his current state of mind. Can you offer any advice about how I can help him, other than what I have been doing? I continue to remind him of who he is to the best of my ability and to be ever mindful of my own Godness. Anything you can suggest or share is greatly appreciated.

--Separated from Twin

Dear Separated,
The best thing you can do for him is to stay centered yourself. You are on the brink of a new journey, a new phase of your life and before stepping onto the new path, it is very important that you make sure you are fully prepared. This means paying close attention to your environment and your body. Build yourself up so you are a pillar of love, and feel very safe, secure, and stable. This is not to be rushed, but when your preparations are done, and you move forward, leaving much behind, the changes will be very favorable.

The two of you have come together to help each other grow, and there will be more of that for both of you. Spirit will guide you and lead you to the tools you both need to clear the obstacles, if you listen. This situation is common among soul-based relationships because they are so intense. I wish you the very best on your journey.

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